When speaking with fellow Kenyon students about why they were hesitant to join Tinder, the most common response I received was, “I dont want people to see me on there” — translation being, “I would feel embarrassed if people knew I was on Tinder, looking to hook up with someone.” Tinder has always been stigmatized,
Is it bad to download Tinder?
Overall, Tinder is a good app for hookups, even though it isnt expressly designed for hookups. It has the most users of any dating app. It also doesnt separate the hookup folk from the relationship folks, as other more “serious” dating apps do by way of personality tests.
Is it OK for girls to text first on Tinder?
On Bumble, yes, women are required to send the first message after a match. But every other app, its up to whoever decides to make the first move.
What can a girl say first on Tinder?
You can try a light-hearted question, a funny pick-up line, a flirty compliment, or a simple hello. The key is choosing an Tinder first message that matches your personality and also reflects the tone of the persons profile who you matched with.